by Intelligent_Rocket_0277 on Oct 2, 2023
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I'm 20 and studying now. My parents are both professors and hence all the burden of studies. They don't say much but I know they want the best for me and for which I have study much harder. They are not understanding that I'm not extraordinary but just average and I'm trying . I've been living in guilt for not meeting their expectations till now. How do I deal with it. ? Its impacting my mental health too @Intelligent_Rocket_0277
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・answered 386 days ago
I know this feeling too well I've been there too. Just try and make them understand but this doesn't work everytime. Please just hang in there and you'll definitely get through itm All the best girl ❤️❤️
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Don't do this dear. Everyone is different and so are there journeys. You can't plan great things only. I would suggest you to do things that you are capable of and not take extra pressure. This is only effecting your health. Try to speak to your parents, I'm sure they will understand
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Hi! Totally understand this.Parents do not mean bad, they only know that much in dealing with their kids. So, as others have said, talking it put with them would be best.I really do not know which class or age you are in? If you are in the 10th or 12th, it's your board exams, so may be that is the pressure. Overall, when you talk to them, you tell them..." I observe that you want me to get high marks. I am feeling a little pressured on that, my need is that I study calm, I request you to understand and give me my space so that I can be calm and study and meet your expectations too..." see how it goes..Tc, Preetha Your coach
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・answered 382 days ago
I can understand your concern. Every child's parents have expectations from them especially when their parents have themselves done so well such as professor, business. You try your best don't let it affect you. Also try to convey it to your parents that u r trying but don't pressurize me.
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you must know what your field, your hobby and interest, focus on that and make achievment, talk to your parents you're not a kind of academic person. but still you must good in general, focus on your interest and still have good grade.
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